Fatimah Musa

Learning from your mistakes.

If you are alert, aware and awake, you will notice your mistakes when you make them. They contribute to your personal growth. However, if you fail to notice them, you will continue to do the same errors indefinitely. Here's what you can do when you ... Read >

How to Eliminate the Negative and Destructive Patterns of Thinking and Feeling.

Negative thinking results in destructive feeling. As you continue to dwell on the negativity in your life, it becomes a pattern. From the minute you wake up, your thoughts and emotions become automatic because they now have control over you. If you ... Read >

How to increase your chances of succeeding.

Everyday and in everyway, you are given another chance to excel. The minute you wake up, you can decide to stay the same or become and have more. Your chances of succeeding depend on you. People around you and in your life can help you or bring you d... Read >

How to forgive an abusive parent.

Once you forgive, you feel a sense of relief. Accepting his or her weakness. Some fathers or mothers treat their children based on their memories on how they were treated. Some others have been brought up in an environment where they could not ... Read >

How I Got Rid of the green-eyed Monster called Jealousy.

I am ashamed to admit this but I used to have the green-eyed monster tailing me wherever I went. It was my shadow and my other half. Of course jealousy justified its presence and suspicions. It was there to protect me. Jealousy kept telling me what ... Read >

Why not seriously examine your life?

You are actually much more that what you are displaying physically and mentally. Is your life filled with mundane chores, stale relationships, doubts and insecurities? Does your mind tend to gravitate toward negative thoughts and lack? Are your livi... Read >

Why not realize your goals?

Have you forgotten what it is you want to become and have? Probably you have made a few attempts, found that your strategies didn't work and lost yourself along the way. Why not give yourself another chance to realize your goals? It all starts w... Read >

How to make use of your alone time

Many people dread the times when they are left alone. They feel a sense of emptiness or boredom. They start to look out for things to do or people to talk to. Some get into habits like shopping, eating, watching too much television or anything else to "ki... Read >

How to deal with negative emotions.

Negative emotions sap your energy and undermine your effectiveness. In the negative emotional state, you find the lack of desire to do anything. The mind is filled with thoughts of fear, doubts and insecurities. Your body experiences fatigue, tightness an... Read >

How to have a happy and productive life.

Living a happy and productive life is nothing more that the sum total of many happy days of doing productive activities. It is about creating as many "Now" moments as possible. How to have a happy and productive life. Know exactly what it is tha... Read >

How to solve relationship problems.

Relationship problems either with your spouse, family, business partners or other people affect your personal growth, success and well being. If you value your relationship, you need to make better decisions and take specific actions to make them work. ... Read >

What to do when your self-confidence declines.

When your self-confidence declines, you become afraid to meet life challenges and lack the desire to interact with others. You feel knocked out and defeated. You lose the enthusiasm and excitement to take action. This could have resulted from experiencing... Read >

How to start the process of life change.

If your debts are building up, your relationship is leading you astray or your career is at a halt, it's about time you analyze your situation and start the process of life change. Make a decision today to do all that you can to transform you life. T... Read >

How to overcome boredom.

Are you bored with your work, your relationship or your life? Being bored is a state of mind when you are fed up and sick of what's going on or the lack of activity around you. Complacency also contributes to feeling bored. Boredom becomes a great con... Read >